I am wondering how single people, especially those in their 40s and 50s, cope with being single.
I am also single and we are the people who are not able to get married due to many reasons that are best known to ourselves.
My question is: If all women only seek the best men, where would all the second or third-rate men turn to if not prostitutes?
When age is catching up, people will come to a crossroads and make decisions for themselves.
I can’t blame the authorities for not legalising prostitution, given our Islamic culture.
But to be alone and to die in loneliness, I would rather have a brush with the authorities and meet my fate.
Wait guys, what you read above is not my story and not my opinion. It is an extract from Star Online.
I share her feelings and understand the plight and emptiness of being alone. Blessed with a soul-mate and 3 naughty kids (another one is coming!), I am indeed so fortunate, Alhamdulillah.
But for all reasons in the world, prostitution is not a solution to any single men or women out there. And in many reports that we heard, many men who were caught in action for this illegal and immoral activity are married men. So, being single and alone is not the reason for men involve in prostitution.
To all guys and gals who are still searching for Mr. or Miss. Right, don’t give up. How about resort to Mr. or Miss Not So Bad?
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
organ donation
assalamualaikum
it has been quite a while since the last posting.this time feel quite relax since i am not teaching this short semester.
a few days ago, me and my friends were discussing about organ donation.she insist not to donate any of her organs after her death.
i've been reading about this and i would like to share with all.the article below is in Bahasa.you all can read and understand Bahasa right?
Pemindahan organ dilakukan untuk menggantikan organ yang tidak berfungsi atau rosak, dengan tujuan merawati pesakit. Proses ini merupakan suatu cara perubatan yang diharuskan oleh Islam. Oleh yang demikian, para fuqaha’ telah memutuskan bahawa hukum pemindahan organ adalah harus. Ini bertepatan dengan matlamat Syara’ (maqasid Syari’ah) yang memandang berat terhadap kebajikan dan maslahat manusia, serta pemeliharaan nyawa manusia.
Allah s.w.t telah berfirman yang bermaksud: “Sesiapa yang membunuh seorang manusia dengan tiada alasan yang membolehkan membunuh orang itu, atau (kerana) melakukan kerosakan di muka bumi, maka seolah-olah dia telah membunuh manusia semuanya; dan sesiapa yang menjaga keselamatan hidup seorang manusia, maka seolah-olah dia telah menjaga keselamatan hidup manusia semuanya.” (Surah Al-Ma'idah, ayat 32)
Tidak syak lagi bahawa pemindahan organ termasuk di dalam menjaga kehidupan manusia. Namun, pemindahan tersebut tidak boleh menyebabkan mudarat kepada orang yang diambil darinya organ untuk dipindahkan kepada orang lain. Ini berdasarkan kaedah di dalam Syara’ yang menetapkan bahawa “sesuatu kemudaratan tidak boleh dihilangkan dengan cara menyebabkan kemudaratan kepada orang lain”. Kaedah ini menjelaskan bahawa sesuatu kemudaratan tidak boleh dihindarkan dengan mendatangkan mudarat yang setimpal atau yang lebih besar darinya.
Terdapat dua jenis pendermaan organ. Yang pertama adalah pendermaan dari seseorang sewaktu hayatnya. Kedua adalah pendermaan dari seseorang setelah ia meninggal dunia.
Umumnya, pendermaan organ adalah dibolehkan di dalam Islam. Ia adalah sesuatu pemberian yang sangat bernilai, sepertimana wang ringgit dapat melapangkan kehidupan orang yang memerlukan. Begitu juga penderma organ akan melapangkan kepayahan yang dideritai oleh para pesakit selama ini. Ini adalah kerana pendermaan organ merupakan cara yang dapat membantu pesakit, serta menyelamatkan nyawanya.
Para ulama’ telah mengharuskan juga pendermaan organ dari seseorang yang telah meninggal dunia kepada yang masih hidup, jika si mati telah mengizinkan sewaktu hayatnya, atau warisnya mengizinkan pendermaan tersebut. Islam memberi penekanan dalam memberi seorang Islam pilihan untuk menderma ataupun tidak dan untuk mengikrarkan pilihan tersebut sewaktu ia hidup. Dalam sistem opt-in, seperti MTERA, izin boleh diberikan dengan berikrar. Adalah penting bagi seseorang itu untuk memberitahu ahli keluarganya tentang pilihannya agar ia dihormati selepas kematiannya.
so now, how about you?
if you now decide to donate your organ, these are a few things that you need to know.
1.sign a donor card and carry the card with you at all time.put in in your wallet.
2.tell all your relatives concerned about your decision of donating organs. Upon your death, your relatives just need to contact a near-by hospital. The rest of the work will be led by the hospital folks and the affiliated NGO(s).
3. If you decide to declare in your will for organ donation, please bear in mind that it may not work because by the time your will is opened/processed, your dead body may already have been buried or cremated. It’s also important to note that your relatives play a key role in getting this noble act done. If they decide not to go ahead, even a letter signed by you may not help. So, do make sure to convince everyone that matters!
it has been quite a while since the last posting.this time feel quite relax since i am not teaching this short semester.
a few days ago, me and my friends were discussing about organ donation.she insist not to donate any of her organs after her death.
i've been reading about this and i would like to share with all.the article below is in Bahasa.you all can read and understand Bahasa right?
Pemindahan organ dilakukan untuk menggantikan organ yang tidak berfungsi atau rosak, dengan tujuan merawati pesakit. Proses ini merupakan suatu cara perubatan yang diharuskan oleh Islam. Oleh yang demikian, para fuqaha’ telah memutuskan bahawa hukum pemindahan organ adalah harus. Ini bertepatan dengan matlamat Syara’ (maqasid Syari’ah) yang memandang berat terhadap kebajikan dan maslahat manusia, serta pemeliharaan nyawa manusia.
Allah s.w.t telah berfirman yang bermaksud: “Sesiapa yang membunuh seorang manusia dengan tiada alasan yang membolehkan membunuh orang itu, atau (kerana) melakukan kerosakan di muka bumi, maka seolah-olah dia telah membunuh manusia semuanya; dan sesiapa yang menjaga keselamatan hidup seorang manusia, maka seolah-olah dia telah menjaga keselamatan hidup manusia semuanya.” (Surah Al-Ma'idah, ayat 32)
Tidak syak lagi bahawa pemindahan organ termasuk di dalam menjaga kehidupan manusia. Namun, pemindahan tersebut tidak boleh menyebabkan mudarat kepada orang yang diambil darinya organ untuk dipindahkan kepada orang lain. Ini berdasarkan kaedah di dalam Syara’ yang menetapkan bahawa “sesuatu kemudaratan tidak boleh dihilangkan dengan cara menyebabkan kemudaratan kepada orang lain”. Kaedah ini menjelaskan bahawa sesuatu kemudaratan tidak boleh dihindarkan dengan mendatangkan mudarat yang setimpal atau yang lebih besar darinya.
Terdapat dua jenis pendermaan organ. Yang pertama adalah pendermaan dari seseorang sewaktu hayatnya. Kedua adalah pendermaan dari seseorang setelah ia meninggal dunia.
Umumnya, pendermaan organ adalah dibolehkan di dalam Islam. Ia adalah sesuatu pemberian yang sangat bernilai, sepertimana wang ringgit dapat melapangkan kehidupan orang yang memerlukan. Begitu juga penderma organ akan melapangkan kepayahan yang dideritai oleh para pesakit selama ini. Ini adalah kerana pendermaan organ merupakan cara yang dapat membantu pesakit, serta menyelamatkan nyawanya.
Para ulama’ telah mengharuskan juga pendermaan organ dari seseorang yang telah meninggal dunia kepada yang masih hidup, jika si mati telah mengizinkan sewaktu hayatnya, atau warisnya mengizinkan pendermaan tersebut. Islam memberi penekanan dalam memberi seorang Islam pilihan untuk menderma ataupun tidak dan untuk mengikrarkan pilihan tersebut sewaktu ia hidup. Dalam sistem opt-in, seperti MTERA, izin boleh diberikan dengan berikrar. Adalah penting bagi seseorang itu untuk memberitahu ahli keluarganya tentang pilihannya agar ia dihormati selepas kematiannya.
so now, how about you?
if you now decide to donate your organ, these are a few things that you need to know.
1.sign a donor card and carry the card with you at all time.put in in your wallet.
2.tell all your relatives concerned about your decision of donating organs. Upon your death, your relatives just need to contact a near-by hospital. The rest of the work will be led by the hospital folks and the affiliated NGO(s).
3. If you decide to declare in your will for organ donation, please bear in mind that it may not work because by the time your will is opened/processed, your dead body may already have been buried or cremated. It’s also important to note that your relatives play a key role in getting this noble act done. If they decide not to go ahead, even a letter signed by you may not help. So, do make sure to convince everyone that matters!
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
ITL QUICK REVISION
assalamualaikum
dear all my beloved students. i believe u guys are cracking your head trying to memorize everything...well it's normal if u feel nervous..it's not normal if u feel relax!
i dont know how to make it easy for you. i juz pray to Allah that u got them all in your head.
below are some questions that might be helpful to you in doing your revision.these questions are actually the gist of what we have been studying this semester.dont take this as questions that will come out this friday!!! (repeat reading this a few times)it is meant only to facilitate you in your revision.
1. What are sources of law in the English legal system?
2. explain the defects of Common Law that lead to the emergence of Equity?
3. What is Equity and how does it comes into existence?
4. What are the function of Court Of Chancery?
5. Explain a few equitable maxims.
6. Explain the Parliamentary process.
7. Define the meaning of legislation and delegated legislation./where does the power to create delegated legislation is derived from?
8. give examples of delegated legislation.
9. explain how court may control the delegated legislation and how?
10. what are the advantages and disadvantages of delegated legislation?
11. you should know the structure of courts in England and Malaysia.
12. what is judicial precedent?
13. explain the operation of the doctrine of judicial precedent.
14. what is the difference between ratio decidendi and orbiter dicta?explain with relevant case.
15. read and understand the 4 methods to avoid precedent. you should know the differences between the 4 methods.
16. explain he importance of Section 3 and 5 of Civil Law Act 1972.
17. what is Constitution?
18. elaborate the basic features of Malaysian Constitution.
19. Read and memorize the jurisdiction of each courts in Malaysia.
20. REMEMBER, THESE QUESTIONS ARE MEANT TO FACILITATE YOU IN YOUR REVISION. BY ALL MEANS THESE ARE NOT TOPICS THAT WILL COME OUT IN EXAM.
21. Finally, enjoy revision.see you in Final.
dear all my beloved students. i believe u guys are cracking your head trying to memorize everything...well it's normal if u feel nervous..it's not normal if u feel relax!
i dont know how to make it easy for you. i juz pray to Allah that u got them all in your head.
below are some questions that might be helpful to you in doing your revision.these questions are actually the gist of what we have been studying this semester.dont take this as questions that will come out this friday!!! (repeat reading this a few times)it is meant only to facilitate you in your revision.
1. What are sources of law in the English legal system?
2. explain the defects of Common Law that lead to the emergence of Equity?
3. What is Equity and how does it comes into existence?
4. What are the function of Court Of Chancery?
5. Explain a few equitable maxims.
6. Explain the Parliamentary process.
7. Define the meaning of legislation and delegated legislation./where does the power to create delegated legislation is derived from?
8. give examples of delegated legislation.
9. explain how court may control the delegated legislation and how?
10. what are the advantages and disadvantages of delegated legislation?
11. you should know the structure of courts in England and Malaysia.
12. what is judicial precedent?
13. explain the operation of the doctrine of judicial precedent.
14. what is the difference between ratio decidendi and orbiter dicta?explain with relevant case.
15. read and understand the 4 methods to avoid precedent. you should know the differences between the 4 methods.
16. explain he importance of Section 3 and 5 of Civil Law Act 1972.
17. what is Constitution?
18. elaborate the basic features of Malaysian Constitution.
19. Read and memorize the jurisdiction of each courts in Malaysia.
20. REMEMBER, THESE QUESTIONS ARE MEANT TO FACILITATE YOU IN YOUR REVISION. BY ALL MEANS THESE ARE NOT TOPICS THAT WILL COME OUT IN EXAM.
21. Finally, enjoy revision.see you in Final.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF LAW 1 GROUP 12 CARRY MARKS
dear all students.below is the carry marks for all tasks that you have completed.any problem, please call/text me k.all the best for your final.
MATRIC 1 (10%) 2 (5%) 3 (20%) 4 (10%) 5 (5%) TOTAL
095319 3.5 5 15 7 4 34.5 =35
095352 4.5 5 15 7 4 35.5 =36
095375 2 3 6 7 X 18
095463 3.5 5 10.5 7 3 29
095493 7 3 12.5 7 3 32.5 =33
095497 7 3 14 7 4.5 35.5 =36
095542 5.5 5 13 7 4.5 35
095584 5.5 5 14.5 7 4.5 36.5 =37
095597 7.5 5 13 7 3.5 36
095614 7.5 2.5 13.5 7 4 34.5 =35
095646 2 5 9 7 3.5 26.5 =27
095649 4.5 5 10 6 3.5 29
095675 7.5 5 8 7 4 31.5 =32
095828 4 3 13 6 3 29
095833 4 3 6 6 1.5 20.5 =21
095845 5 3 11 7 3.5 29.5 =30
095851 3.5 5 7 7 2.5 25
095875 7 5 9 7 3.5 31.5 =32
095898 6 3 10 7 4.5 30.5 =31
095941 5.5 5 9 7 4.5 31
095988 4 2.5 9.5 6 1.5 23.5 =24
096004 3.5 3 9 7 2 24.5 =25
082492 5 3 6.5 7 4.5 26
094937 5 3 11 7 4.5 29.5 =30
095253 5 3 16 7 4 35
085498 5 2.5 17 7 4.5 36
083516 7 3 11.5 7 4.5 33
1 - PROBLEM SOLVING
2 - CASE REVIEW
3 - MID SEM
4 - CASE BRIEF
5 - TEST
MATRIC 1 (10%) 2 (5%) 3 (20%) 4 (10%) 5 (5%) TOTAL
095319 3.5 5 15 7 4 34.5 =35
095352 4.5 5 15 7 4 35.5 =36
095375 2 3 6 7 X 18
095463 3.5 5 10.5 7 3 29
095493 7 3 12.5 7 3 32.5 =33
095497 7 3 14 7 4.5 35.5 =36
095542 5.5 5 13 7 4.5 35
095584 5.5 5 14.5 7 4.5 36.5 =37
095597 7.5 5 13 7 3.5 36
095614 7.5 2.5 13.5 7 4 34.5 =35
095646 2 5 9 7 3.5 26.5 =27
095649 4.5 5 10 6 3.5 29
095675 7.5 5 8 7 4 31.5 =32
095828 4 3 13 6 3 29
095833 4 3 6 6 1.5 20.5 =21
095845 5 3 11 7 3.5 29.5 =30
095851 3.5 5 7 7 2.5 25
095875 7 5 9 7 3.5 31.5 =32
095898 6 3 10 7 4.5 30.5 =31
095941 5.5 5 9 7 4.5 31
095988 4 2.5 9.5 6 1.5 23.5 =24
096004 3.5 3 9 7 2 24.5 =25
082492 5 3 6.5 7 4.5 26
094937 5 3 11 7 4.5 29.5 =30
095253 5 3 16 7 4 35
085498 5 2.5 17 7 4.5 36
083516 7 3 11.5 7 4.5 33
1 - PROBLEM SOLVING
2 - CASE REVIEW
3 - MID SEM
4 - CASE BRIEF
5 - TEST
Thursday, January 21, 2010
the gifted hands
assalamualaikum
been quite busy lately.dont have much time to write here.
today,for our self-development programme, we watched a movie the gifted hands.theres a lot of good message that we can get from this movie in which the talented Cuba Gooding Jr. plays a main role of a neurosurgeon who had a difficulties in his childhood. because of the mother's efforts and gifted intelligence and skills he, later in life, became the world most famous neurosurgeon.
this movie is based on true story. it tells us that we can do anything in life if we really want to. there is no one dumb in this world. you can learn everything, just everything only if you really go for it.this movie is good for mothers who hope a lot in their children, to teachers who have low achievers in their class, to almost everyone who has been through a lot in life.
next friday, we are looking forward for more good movies.
been quite busy lately.dont have much time to write here.
today,for our self-development programme, we watched a movie the gifted hands.theres a lot of good message that we can get from this movie in which the talented Cuba Gooding Jr. plays a main role of a neurosurgeon who had a difficulties in his childhood. because of the mother's efforts and gifted intelligence and skills he, later in life, became the world most famous neurosurgeon.
this movie is based on true story. it tells us that we can do anything in life if we really want to. there is no one dumb in this world. you can learn everything, just everything only if you really go for it.this movie is good for mothers who hope a lot in their children, to teachers who have low achievers in their class, to almost everyone who has been through a lot in life.
next friday, we are looking forward for more good movies.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
it's all about you!
assalamualaikum and hi.
i got class at 8 till 11 this morning.at 9, when i was giving lecture about assault and battery, this one student knocked the door and with guilt entered the class.thanks bro, i do appreciate your attendance even though it was the second hour of the lecture!well, at least you did come.
the scenario above is not new to me.it happens from time to time.again, please come to class even its already late.but please do not take it that i encourage students to be late.if the same person is doing the same thing again and again, you will get a lesson that you will remember for quite some time in your life!!
last posting was about positive attitude.one of two things that i mention before was about mind-setting of a student.remember, as a student, you need to behave and act like one!no late for class, no sleep in class, no etc....so many no la madame!
one of the biggest hurdles that you need to pass is to pass exam successfully.But the key to this is to study effectively. To study effectively and to pass examinations excellently, the most important resource that you have is you.
You are by now an exam passer. To get to this level (pre-university/university) you have been studying and passing examinations. Not only can you do it, you did it well. You are one of those outstanding students, and you have been selected on the basis that you passed examination excellently.
Because you are among the chosen ones, there are qualifications waiting for you. There is the expectation that, on your track record to date, you will succeed. There are a lot of people believe in you. Remember, you can win! You can achieve your dreams!
Say to yourself, in all honesty, "I CAN DO IT"! AND I CAN DO IT WELL!!
i got class at 8 till 11 this morning.at 9, when i was giving lecture about assault and battery, this one student knocked the door and with guilt entered the class.thanks bro, i do appreciate your attendance even though it was the second hour of the lecture!well, at least you did come.
the scenario above is not new to me.it happens from time to time.again, please come to class even its already late.but please do not take it that i encourage students to be late.if the same person is doing the same thing again and again, you will get a lesson that you will remember for quite some time in your life!!
last posting was about positive attitude.one of two things that i mention before was about mind-setting of a student.remember, as a student, you need to behave and act like one!no late for class, no sleep in class, no etc....so many no la madame!
one of the biggest hurdles that you need to pass is to pass exam successfully.But the key to this is to study effectively. To study effectively and to pass examinations excellently, the most important resource that you have is you.
You are by now an exam passer. To get to this level (pre-university/university) you have been studying and passing examinations. Not only can you do it, you did it well. You are one of those outstanding students, and you have been selected on the basis that you passed examination excellently.
Because you are among the chosen ones, there are qualifications waiting for you. There is the expectation that, on your track record to date, you will succeed. There are a lot of people believe in you. Remember, you can win! You can achieve your dreams!
Say to yourself, in all honesty, "I CAN DO IT"! AND I CAN DO IT WELL!!
Saturday, January 2, 2010
positive attitude
assalamualaikum
i actually dedicated this to all my students.hopefully this can benefit you all.i was thinking, what should i write first???hmmmm..then it comes to my mind that i should write about positive attitude.i believe that positive attitude in learning the most important issue that i deal as a teacher.thanks to many of my students who motivate me to do my level best everyday.
since the first class, i've been telling my students that they should aim to be an "exemplary, extraordinary students". but how?
ok.keep reading.what i write here is my personal view.it serves as advice. you may leave it, no obligation to accept it.it is based on my experience of teaching for nearly 5 years, handling personal and academic issues of my students.
well, the first step of becoming an "exemplary, extraordinary students" one must first have a correct and positive attitude.
fisrt, build in you an intent to succeed. no matter who you are, where you from, what you have been through in life before, believe that you can do it.other people can. it is humanly possible!
second, prepare yourself.set your mind that you are a student.you are not yet a lawyer, magistrate, judge, legal executive or anyone that you want to be in future. you are at present a law student. it means that you have to attend class/lectures, tutorials and you have to sit for exams! and you must pass the examinations successfully.who says that exams are not important??anyone?remember, if you skip classes, or sleep during lectures there's nothing right about what you are doing. baed on my experience as a teacher and a student (not long time ago), reading on our own is not enough. we still need teacher to guide us.
thirdly...we'll continue later.remember these two things: intent to succeed and mind-setting of a students.
this is merely and advice.take it or leave it?it's all your choice.
i actually dedicated this to all my students.hopefully this can benefit you all.i was thinking, what should i write first???hmmmm..then it comes to my mind that i should write about positive attitude.i believe that positive attitude in learning the most important issue that i deal as a teacher.thanks to many of my students who motivate me to do my level best everyday.
since the first class, i've been telling my students that they should aim to be an "exemplary, extraordinary students". but how?
ok.keep reading.what i write here is my personal view.it serves as advice. you may leave it, no obligation to accept it.it is based on my experience of teaching for nearly 5 years, handling personal and academic issues of my students.
well, the first step of becoming an "exemplary, extraordinary students" one must first have a correct and positive attitude.
fisrt, build in you an intent to succeed. no matter who you are, where you from, what you have been through in life before, believe that you can do it.other people can. it is humanly possible!
second, prepare yourself.set your mind that you are a student.you are not yet a lawyer, magistrate, judge, legal executive or anyone that you want to be in future. you are at present a law student. it means that you have to attend class/lectures, tutorials and you have to sit for exams! and you must pass the examinations successfully.who says that exams are not important??anyone?remember, if you skip classes, or sleep during lectures there's nothing right about what you are doing. baed on my experience as a teacher and a student (not long time ago), reading on our own is not enough. we still need teacher to guide us.
thirdly...we'll continue later.remember these two things: intent to succeed and mind-setting of a students.
this is merely and advice.take it or leave it?it's all your choice.
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